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“Random acts of kindness and compliments. You would not believe what an impact buying someone’s coffee has or telling the cashier how nice her shirt is. I make sure not to come at things negatively all the time during live conversations (unless it’s a moral/ethical issue, and then all bets are off). I count how long people go in between saying nice things. It’s shocking how much bad shit people spew without even realizing it. Throw out some good vibes, and you’ll get it back tenfold. Let people find out you talked about them behind their backs, and it was all a good thing.”
“I love giving compliments, but I try to be very careful not to make them about someone’s body. Your hair looks great is fine, but wow, you look great since losing weight is not.”